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5 Benefits of Premarital Counseling That’ll Make Your Marriage Marvelous

January 3, 2022 · In: Spiritual Growth

If you’re engaged and are wondering if premarital counseling is really going to be worth your time, energy, and potentially your money… Then you absolutely need to read this post!

There are several key benefits of marriage counseling during engagement that can absolutely make your marriage somuch better from the beginning!

Many married couples will tell you that their first year of marriage was their absolute toughest, and while that may still be true, premarital counseling will definitely help prevent many unnecessary arguments from happening.

As a newlywed myself (married for about a year and a half) I cannot even begin to tell you how many things my husband and I have gone through that we learned the solutions for AHEAD of time in premarital counseling!

And that’s just what I’m going to share with you here so that I can affirm the effectiveness of premarital counseling and why it’s so highly recommended. (You can even save $ on your marriage license by doing it! THAT’S how big of a deal it is!)

This post is all about the benefits of premarital counseling.

 

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1 Benefits of Premarital Counseling That Make it Entirely Worth it
2 All Your Questions About Premarital Counseling Answered
2.1 What is Premarital Counseling for?
2.2 Is Premarital Counseling Worth it?
2.3 Does Premarital Counseling Reduce Divorce Rates?
2.4 What Can I Expect from Premarital Counseling?

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Benefits of Premarital Counseling That Make it Entirely Worth it

1. PREMARITAL COUNSELING TEACHES YOU EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.

Let’s face it: humans are complex individuals. And we have absolutely zero way of knowing what all is going on in the other person’s brain without them communicating it to us…

So many fights happen in marriage because people have unmet expectations that they don’t know how to communicate to their spouse…

Premarital counseling will teach you to stop trying to mind-read each other, but instead, communicate in a way that helps you both understand each other’s needs and desires in a very healthy way.

2. PREMARITAL COUNSELING GIVES YOU SOLUTIONS TO PROBLEMS BEFORE THEY EVEN HAPPEN.

Because your counselor has more-than-likely worked with countless married couples (and is hopefully married themself) they know about the situations that trigger conflict, so they can help prepare you for marriage by telling you about those things ahead of time…

And then, when those situations do arise in your marriage, you are prepared with how to resolve the issue more quickly.

3. PREMARITAL COUNSELING GIVES YOU AN OUTLET TO ADDRESS ISSUES (KNOWN AND UNKNOWN.)

Not only will pre-marriage counseling open a door for you to share painful thoughts or feelings you may need to confront before you say “I do,” but it’ll also give you the opportunity to recognize some areas of your relationship that may need work… those areas that may already be causing conflict (or could cause conflict in the future) that you wouldn’t know about without the eyes of a professional looking at them.

4. PREMARITAL COUNSELING DRAWS YOU CLOSER TO EACH OTHER AS A COUPLE.

Because you’ll both start to understand each other even more during premarital counseling, you will grow to have an even deeper love and appreciation for each other, which will bring you even closer!

Your counselor may even advise the two of you to read an impactful marriage book together to help you grow even more in this area.

5. PREMARITAL COUNSELING WILL HELP YOU OVERCOME FEARS YOU HAVE TIED TO MARRIAGE.

Your premarital counselor is the perfect person to share any fears or anxieties that you may have concerning marriage with.

Personally, I had the fear of “marrying the wrong person,” even though I truly loved my fiancé (my now husband!) — I felt such a relief when I got that fear off my chest and my counselor was able she some Biblical light into it.

 

All Your Questions About Premarital Counseling Answered

What is Premarital Counseling for?

Premarital counseling is designed to engaged couples understand their partner better, how to effectively communicate with each other, and how to resolve conflicts more quickly and easily. You will not regret attending premarital counseling!

Is Premarital Counseling Worth it?

Premarital counseling is absolutey worth the money, even if it totals up to $800 or more. Because, either way, it is still a heck of a lot cheaper than getting a divorce.

In reference to spending time and energy on premarital counseling, yes… It’s absolutely worth putting your time and energy into, considering your marriage is going to be the absolute biggest factor of your life.

Does Premarital Counseling Reduce Divorce Rates?

Absolutely. Recent studies have shown that divorce rates are a whopping 31% lower among couples who attended premarital counseling!

What Can I Expect from Premarital Counseling?

Expect to have a conversation with someone who’s been in your shoes. Let go of the fears you have revolving premarital counseling. It’s not as intimidating as you may think it will be.

Your counselor is going to ask you some questions about yourselves and your relationship, as well as give you a lot of wise advice.

Just be open-minded and allow yourself to be in a position that may not seem like the most comfortable one, in order to grow. Nothing great happens from comfort zones!

 

We hope this post all about the benefits of premarital counseling blesses your marriage! 

Don't keep this goodness to yourself! 😘

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By: Sydney Rhodes · In: Spiritual Growth

About Sydney Rhodes

Sydney Rhodes is a NASM Certified Personal trainer and has worked full-time in the health and wellness industry since 2014. She's coached countless women in sustainable fitness and nutrition practices, and has a passion for sharing her faith in Christ alongside her work.

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